The Real Mom Survey

The Mom Survey

First Name

Last Name

Which stage of motherhood are you currently experiencing? (Select all that apply)*

Parenting young children (0-12)

Parenting teenagers (13-18)

Launching young adults (18-25)

Adult children living independently

Adult children getting married

Becoming a mother-in-law

Becoming a grandmother

Empty nest (partial or complete)

Other

Please describe your season

Let’s start with the real stuff. Which statement resonates most with you right now?*

“I love motherhood, but sometimes I want to hide in the bathroom”

“I’m tired of pretending everything is fine when it’s actually really hard”

“I need someone to tell me I’m not failing, even on my worst days”

“I’m looking for guidance that acknowledges the messy reality of raising humans”

“I’m struggling to redefine my role now that my children are becoming adults”

“I don’t know how to navigate this new relationship with my adult children”

“I’m figuring out who I am beyond being someone’s mom”

“I’ve got this motherhood thing figured out” (if this is you, please share your secrets!)

Other

Do you have an alternate statement?

When you’re having a rough day as a mom, what do you ACTUALLY need? (Not what Pinterest says you need)*

Someone who listens without judging

Permission to not have it all together

Practical advice that doesn’t require perfection

A reminder that this hard season won’t last forever

Space to be honest about the difficulties

Scripture or faith-based encouragement that feels real, not preachy

Guidance on letting go while staying connected

Wisdom on supporting adult children without overstepping

Other

Is there something else?

What’s something about your current stage of motherhood that you wish someone had told you honestly about before?

For moms with older/adult children: What’s the most challenging aspect of this phase of motherhood?

Letting go while still being supportive

Navigating new boundaries with adult children

Building a relationship with my child’s spouse/partner

Finding my identity outside of active mothering

Managing emotions about children moving away

Balancing support without enabling dependence

Becoming a mother-in-law or grandmother

Other

– Not applicable to my current stage

Are you experiencing another challenge that isn’t listed?

When you’ve found genuinely helpful support as a mom, what made it different from everything else out there?

If you could have any type of support for the tough days, what would be most valuable?*

Blog posts that tackle the real, messy parts of motherhood at all stages

Videos that feel like chatting with an understanding friend

A community where I can share without fear of judgment

One-on-one coaching focused on my specific challenges

Courses that offer practical strategies for navigating transitions

Daily/weekly encouragement messages with scripture

Content specifically addressing midlife and empty nest challenges

Other

Is there another valuable form of support you can think of?

Not seeing the statement that reflects your heart? Will you share more?

What’s your current life transition?

What specific aspect of motherhood would you most appreciate encouragement about right now?

If you had a trusted mentor to talk to about motherhood at your current stage, what’s the first question you’d ask them?

When scripture is shared as encouragement, what approach actually helps you?

Verses with practical application to real mom situations

Stories of imperfect biblical parents who God still used

Gentle reminders of grace when I feel like I’m failing

Encouraging truth without the spiritual pressure

I prefer encouragement that doesn’t reference scripture

Other

Is there a different approach you prefer?

What format would best fit your life for receiving support and encouragement?

Short, authentic blog posts I can read in spare moments

Quick videos I can watch while doing other tasks

Audio content I can listen to while driving/cooking

Weekly live discussions I can join when able

Self-paced resources I can access when I have time

One-on-one conversations scheduled around my availability

Other

Is there a different format that is better for you?

Anything else you want to share about what you’re looking for in motherhood support that’s different from what’s already out there, especially for your current stage of motherhood?

What’s your FAVORITEST part of motherhood?

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